E N G A G E M E N T

Express and communicate. Person need it to live. Everything we do communicate, our facts, emotions, corporal gestures, thinking, voice...

It´s impressive how many information can we express unconsciously.

Engagement is a special communication feel between two person or group of person. 

It´s a comfortable and security  sensation between receptor and transmitter. 

It´s a feeling where both are connecting through contact eyes, emotions and corporal gestures. 

When you get it, you can feel really good and satisfied.

Definitely, It´s a concept  relational with emotional intelligence  and non verbal comunication.

I have to comments  the  Dr. Albert Mehrabian experiments about comunication.

He determined that when two people communicate transfering emotions, we can share the comunication in three areas.

-->7% is verbal impact. 

It´s exactly word that we say. 

-->38% is paralinguistic impact.

How we say it? Voice tone, pauses, intonation, rhythm...

-->55% Non verbal comunication.

What our body are  communicating? Contact eyes, legs position, hands movements,...

It´s Amazing ! ! !  93% of our communication it´s not what we say, it´s how we say it.  it´s engagement. 

From this corner I can see how important  Engagement tools are in the Social world as well as in the business world. 

At the moment I am working in Caja Rural de Granada ( Andalusian´s Bank), I have met a new group of friends and partners, they are a very nice and interesting persons. They are a new group as well as a new experience in my life, and is curious how you can see different personalities and different behavior style, and you can feel how all of them are nice people but you can´t engagement 100% with everybody. It´s normal, each one is different. It´s a nice experience to check what engagement is.

Normally, person connect with people with the same personality, concerns, culturals background, life experiences... In my opinion, you can learn and force engagement skills to conect with persons but engagement is a natural facts, is part of our life process and it´s part of your personality. 

Summarizing, You cant choose or force to connect with somebody, your subconscious will choose for you.

I want to finish my post with some questions for you: 

What do you think? Can we learn how to get engagement? or Each one has is own predefined engagement skills?

Have you feel inmediatly engagement with somebody?

G o o d    L u c k  ! !